I like this forum because I frankly get really embarrassed every time I bring up Les Misérables in everyday life, mainly because I don't really like to let my obsession show. I reference it and think about it so much that it's actually a little bit disturbing, and so few people that I know in person actually like it. I also think that some of the people are quite nice and, there is some riotously funny stuff on here. It's a great and comprehensive site, definitely the best Les Misérables site I've run across.
I can tell I'm one of the reasons why you're irritated, and there's no need to be polite about it. I'm very young and extremely new to the fandom (just read the book in November) and am not on precisely as high a plane of thought as most of the members, as well as frequently disagreeing with most of the members of this site on most counts, like which characters and actors I like.
If I were a grown-up, deep-thinking, long-term member of the fandom, I'd probably be more than a little annoyed about an uninformed superficial teenaged fangirl spamming up the boards with her juvenile squealing as well, and I don't mean this in a sarcastic or rude way at all. I'll try to be more mature in the future, if that changes anything.
I hope your situation improves soon, and I hope you're all right. I remember not more than a few weeks ago, you assured us that you wouldn't delete the site, so I'm guessing something majorly bad has happened.
I am playing the Queen of France right now in a play. Try not to decapitate me.